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My life sucks!

Does your life suck?

Does your life suck?

“Your experiences in life is not dictated by what happens, it is dictated by your interpretations of what happens!”

I have a friend who works half day engaging in a full time job, and fills up her morning and evening time doing what she “thinks” she loves best – trainings, trainings, and more trianings.

But, she always tell me her life sucks.

I tell her that this is because she is already doing what she thinks she love doing in her life.

Most of my friends are not as fortunate as her, my brothers and sister included. They work from morning to night, and when they drag their exhausted bodies back home, they have to take care of their babies, hardly any energy left to do any housework, not to mention they can engage in any other activites they want to do, such as exercising and trainings!

But still, even though this friend of mine can train in the mornings and evenings, doing what she thinks she likes doing, she still says her life sucks.

Most people work hard and stress themselves out trying to achieve the outcome of a comfortable, rich life some ‘day’.

That day is not going to come. When that day comes, when you think you can at last retire rich, when you think you can at last have time to do what you like doing, you are going to realize life sucks as well. You feel ‘empty’. Life has absolutely no meaning when that ‘day’ comes.

This is what is happening to this friend of mine. She has all the freedom and time to do what she likes. She works half day in a job with minimal stress and pressures. She has enough to spend. But still, life sucks.

Happiness comes from within, you need to discover the meaning of life on your own, starting from today.

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To help or not to help


People can spend so much time judging whether other people should open up and offer their help in every and all ways they can.

Is there really any right or wrong wether people choose to help or don’t help?

We do not just see the world as it is.

We interpret it through certain ideas and beliefs that shaped us as we grow up in each of our environment.

Hamlet says “There is nothing good or bad, only thinking makes it so.”

Arrrgh, so what if i do not offer my help?? No big deal. So what if I offer my help, i have to prepare myself for the worst, being disappointed with others myself! Face it, some times people do not appreciate your help at all! Face the reality.

The universe gives us a great gift, the ability to choose to think differently. If we can create a certain thought, we can RE-create it again by taking on a different perspective.

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